Nature of cats varies from each other. Some cats are wild and aggressive while some are friendly in nature. It is important to observe body language of a cat to know about its personality.
In this clip a cute fluffy cat is enjoying being pampered. Mostly cats love it but some cats don’t. In some cases, there is a solid message behind it. It is possible that your cat doesn’t like you or maybe feline is not comfortable in the environment. If your cat doesn’t allow you to pat her then you should look for a root cause and fix it.